Blinded, I know its easy to loose hope and to loose sight of a good outcome. Just November my W was saying she didn't want anything to do with me or even talk to me unless it was about our S. Emotions run high during these times and much worse in the beginning. Just last week though we are already able to talk and even laugh together. We aren't back together and I don't think we are close but that is miles from never wanting to see me again. Get DR, read it and give it a try, but keep it private (just for you). Keep posting here and getting the support you need. I think less contact was a necessary step for me for some time and may be for you. Consider it time to get yourself together. I'll keep hoping for you...we all will.


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10