When we misguidedly attempted marriage counseling while my WAH was in the angry stage it went something like this:

Therapist: "H, have you done your home work this week in making a few attempts at connecting more closely with your W?"

Husband: "No".

Therapist: "why didn't you?"

Husband: "I didn't want to."

After this appt I told my H that it was time to stop counseling because he was not interested in doing the work we were being given. His response:

Husband: "Really, why do you think we should stop?"

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