She told me she was done trying in the relationship and getting nothing in return. she even told me if I moved back to Tennessee she would never talk to me again. She then told me when I got a job in TN that it was time for her to support me and be by my side like before. I moved back in June and we got married in Sept. We never had any issues until around the start of Nov. Jan. 5 why do you say "never had any issues", when ^^^this paragraph summarizes the time leading up to the marriage?
That one paragraph contains some BIG issues...did you ever try counseling?
What are YOU DOING differently, than before?
See, here's the "Secret" to this....if you want to call it that. Your wife will Not return to the marriage, UNLESS SHE believes
marriage to you can be better/different than before.
So, what are you DOING (not saying) that is different?
Also, the grabbing her in the home so she could not leave AND THEN the bar incidents are red flags to me. You have a problem you have to work on.
And admitting it would help. Don't minimize it. It would freak me out and yes, I'd need A LOT of "space" if I had a h who literally tried to keep me in one place/boxed in.
Give her the space, big time.
More later...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
