Yeah, I'll get to handle and admire it when I get to wash it lol. DR has been an interesting read so far. I'm only up to step four but big thing I'm taking from it is that it's Ok to be me. That night sound odd but in many threads I've seen people say to other people that you have to do this or be that person and I've felt conflicted by some things that have been suggested to me. It's kind of helping me to define me, accept me for who I am while noting what my wife is looking for and coming up with a strategy for how my wife and I will fit together for who we are rather than who we want the other to be.

Tonight I get to think about when my wife is approachable. That'll be fun :p


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014