After rereading through my thread and thinking about it, the reason I want to give her a card is I want her to know that I love her.

With her being a WAS I doubt she cares right now if I love her or not, all she cares about is how she feels.

I think she knows I love her, it is just that the limited contact it is a different dynamic for us.

I have had an awakening on how to better communicate and be a better me that I am anxious to show off... But back to the waiting.

Marathon not sprint...

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15