So you're dating......good for you!

[CallaghanClown]

He topped the week off well by packing the rest of his clothes in front of the kids and leaving them devastated. I was so shocked. It was complete attention seeking and unnecessary. Had he have done it when the kids weren't there I would have helped him load his car.....stupid boy.

He them kept snapping at me and was very very anxious.

I really thought he was getting well.....bloody expectation. I know not to have any....I hadn't realised I had expectation. He started talking about steeling again.....in front of the kids....I nipped it in the bud. He's secretly eating again..... I just despair. I need to detach further. His recovery has nothing to do with me. I wonder if he's felt pursued by me......it certainly wasn't my intention.

He's here tomorrow to have the kids. I know I need to set some boundaries about the way he speaks in front of them and that he's not to come into my house and upset our kids.....but I feel like it always back fires.

I don't feel comfortable leaving him alone with the kids but I feel like he wants me to be with him and the kids all the time......aaaaaahhhhhh. I have nobody else to supervise his visits and don't want to punish the kids by not letting him come. Can't think of the answer to this dilemma yet.....I'll sleep on it.