All - I do not think it is good to tell my d15 about our divorcing before the summer. I do not think this^^ matters to your w at all. (Clearly). So, I assume you have not told her that you feel this way. You wanted her to...guess it? Or you think she knows and she does not care.
Do you see how sitting there saying you don't think it should happen at all or before summer, DOES nothing? It's just you telling US what you feel and have felt but not expressed. We can't do much with that but tell you, again & again, that your time for "thinking" and "pondering" is well past.
Perhaps she is tougher than I give her credit for, but I can see this messing up her school year, which doesn't have to be. but it IS happening. It is happening. (I repeated that for you to note). Don't skim over that. It's reality. Also, I don''t think we should move before the summer. But they are! And just so I know, did You even tell your w that you wanted to "stay m" AND OR "not divorce before the summer"? Did you tell her or not?
Not that it matters to HER, b/c she's doing it anyhow. But did You bother Talking to her about this? Recently?
Yes, the kids need to know, but on my schedule, and not my W's.
Luke
well, that's nice to SAY here. What does your w think of your opinion on this? What has been said & by whom, to whom?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
