Count how many times you wrote 'I' or 'she needs to...'.
You're not that morality police. SHE doesn't need to do anything. You're trying to force her to accept and 'see' YOUR reality. All this isn't going to get her back or even want to be friends with you. And in the end your kids will suffer.
What do you think is going to happen when you throw the PI's evidence in her face? I'm sure she's going to fall madly back into love with you and give you everything you want.
"Yes I am hurt and I agree it is her choice to have a new relationship. but I still feel the need to tell her I know what she is doing. Not out of anger but out of love.
Mrbond. I do feel out of control and Maybe I am wrong here. But It sure doesn't feel wrong for wanting to say something."
You've already said stuff to her. Right now you're going beyond that to PROVE to her that SHE is wrong.
" As I've said before she is not a horrible monster, person or mother."
Funny. It didn't seem to come across like that last night.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.