The counselor is the one who said I should tell the kids. H asked why I want to tell them now. There is no good time to tell them, but they are going to be crushed, the sooner we tell them the sooner they can start working thru it. He will not be home until at least June so if we tell them it would have to be via skype or facetime.

The other side is they are old enough to see that something is not right with me. I can only lie to them for so long, the counselor said if we wait too long to tell them that could create a lot of resentment from them.

I have an appt scheduled with a new counselor on Wed.

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since