What goal are you referring to? Her goal of D?

If so, then no, you should most definitely not ask her this question. I can't think of one good thing that can come of it.

Nobody here has any idea what your W is thinking. Heck, SHE probably doesn't even know what she is thinking.

Please don't ask her. Just focus on you. What are you doing to GAL?

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14