melissa - standing up for me

[mj0221]

Melissa,
I have followed along with your situation from the beginning because your husband seems to be acting the same as my H although mine left much earlier, today a year ago.

You recently posted that he said something along the lines of, this wasn't what he wanted. Yes you were shocked I know because he initiated the whole thing right?

I am writing to you because my H left me and has maintained since he left that I am the one that made him leave. When he told me that I almost passed out from the shock of hearing it, especially when I begged him to go to counseling, cried, pleaded, etc.

My husband is in a high ranking of law enforcement. He thinks he's invincible. He has managed to tell everyone that I'm the one that made him leave. Do you think they concoct these things in their mind and just start believing them so they don't even have to face the truth of what they have done?