25, I bet I would love your whole WAS/MLC routine. There really is some good material around here.
Humor is so important to me. If you don't have a sense of humor, what do you have? How miserable it would be if we could not find some humor in our sitches?
Luckily, my H makes it easy by being so ridiculous.
The most ridiculous part, though, is that he doesn't even realize how ridiculous he is.
Like your friend who said honesty was so important when it came to sleeping with OM. How do people say things like that, and not realize the absurdity? It bogles the mind. I am really kind of curious - more like fascinated, actually. The human brain works in some really weird ways sometimes.
Maybe I will go back to school for a psych degree. I wonder if I can make my H pay for that in the D.
Paul, I will catch up on your thread and reply more there. But wanted to say, I imagine it is something of a relief for the WAS when the LBS files, because they feel that the blame can shift over to us, and it relieves their guilt. I know my H really prefers to play the role of the victim or martyr (he has done it throughout our M), so I get all this BS about how I betrayed him and damaged our trust and trashed our relationship.
I really feel like I want to start a petition to add an eye roll emoticon option . . . I feel like I need it a lot on this board.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
