I'm sorry T. I'm sure Cadet will be along to list some suggested reading and give you homework.

I know this stinks. I know it hurts like he!! Take care of yourself this weekend as best you are able. Reading other people's situations helped me a lot when things were fresh. Reading reminded me that I wasn't alone. You're aren't alone.

I suggest slowing down and try to avoid your H as much as possible, at least for a few days, to give yourself some space.

Pity parties are fine, but balance those times with some action so you can feel your own strength.

You are in a good place here on the boards. You will find lots of loving, encouraging support.

Do you have friends or family to spend time with this weekend?

Much Love,

Heather

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson