WAW Said She's Done-pt.4- What Happened?

[OneDay]

Yes but the point is we are not divorced yet, and we still live together. It's just morally wrong in my eyes

She is lying to me, the boys, and her family about where she's going and what she is doing. She's rarely around anymore and claim she is working (and knows I will b home with the boys). So she can go off with her BF. She will then complain and argue with me that the house is filthy, the laundry is not done and the floors not clean etc etc. She expects they should be because she is busting her butt working. Which is not always the case. We both work full time. She just chooses to go out more and things start to back up around the house and she takes it out on me.

I've done every bit of the filing. We are still waiting on her to provide her info to the lawyer. We could have been done by now if she had the money to get her own apartment. And if she agreed to 50/50 custody. She could always go to her parents but chooses not too

She is trying to portray me as an unfit father and she feels she need primary custody of the children. As of BD she has been miss party animal. Staying out all night, no one knows where she is, nor does she say before leaving. She calls the following day asking for a ride to her car as she was too drunk to drive. The boys don't need to see that, the are already worried why mom was not home. I could keep going but I think u get the idea. This is why my lawyer feels the need for the PI.

I honestly hope the info that the PI gather never has to come up. I hope she will just agree to 50/50 of the kids.

The Reality I'm referring to is She's knows I am here with the boys. She knows they are safe and she if free to go and do whatever she feels. All while lying. and sneaking around me and the boys

That post last night was out of anger. As I've said before she is not a horrible monster, person or mother. I think we are both very fit parents who have always been very involved in our boys lives and we both deserve 50/50 custody.

Yes I am hurt and I agree it is her choice to have a new relationship. but I still feel the need to tell her I know what she is doing. Not out of anger but out of love.

Mrbond. I do feel out of control and Maybe I am wrong here. But It sure doesn't feel wrong for wanting to say something.