The co-dependency stuff is right on and an evil bear.....But it can be overcome. Then one day your whole mindset changes...the flowers are brighter....The sun is warmer...and you have reach independent nirvana...It is actually a coll feeling once you get there.
Cat- It is good to be back....Granted it took some people to pull out of my hermitage to finding DB zen, but it was getting cold sitting on top of a mountain meditating anyways. I really was disliking that not talking things also....Those dang DB monks kept beating me with sticks every time I talked LOL
