hello confused. I am sorry you find yourself here, but you will hear from others that you will get great support and advice. AS( anotherstander) and he brings some wise thoughts.
I think the general feeling around here is to not leave your home. Whatever you do right now is going to irritate your w as you have already see and stated. The best thing to do is just get out of the way. She's a big girl. She can set her alarm....I don't think you should have to go hide in your room in your own home unless it is what you want to do... I know it is hard. Just continue to be pleasant... hang in there.
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13