Hi M. Just catching up. I filed yesterday. Not because I wanted to but because it was becoming "dangerous". I have to protect what's left. I got information that W had planned to leave for quite a while and onlg stayed be ause of the money. She has been bad mouthing me to the kids and friends for years and no one wanted to hurt me by telling me. Now that she's been out things aren't as comfortable as she thought. She was trying to find ways to get back in. None of those reasons were healthy ones. So after finding out about the lies and bad mouthing I approached her yesterday and told her we needed to file and continue from there. She agreed. Thr more I'm fining out, the more stunned I am that I didn't see it sooner.

You are doing amazing.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14