How can she be cake eating? She filed for D. She is perfectly in her right to have a new relationship.
You're trying to control the situation because of your hurt feelings.
You're going to do much more damage in your relationship with her if you act out of anger. Is that the kind of role model YOU are going to be for your kids. You want to tell your kids that their mom is a sl*t in your eyes? You may not thing you do, but that's exactly how you're acting.
And what "reality" are you referring to? You're the one who isn't accepting reality.
Stop acting like a child and just go ahead and finish filing. Because I can guarantee that if you get a PI and start coming down hard on her to force your "reality" down her throat, it's not going to end well. And it's your kids who will suffer in the end.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.