I don't think there is hope any more... Bunches my W said that she had been miserable for a long time - at least three years. As for looking for anything, W said that there is no hope for anything. She simply wants to take care of our D and that's it.
She said that I should stop the emotional behaviors and concentrate on the logic of not taking our D's routine and changing it. So her only reason for asking me to stay is because she does not want more people to learn about our switch...
I am in serious pain... A counselor I went to suggested that we take 6-8 weeks. Totally dark, while both of us attending sessions separately. Then we schedule a date to talk about whether there are still feelings left in the tank of each one... anyone here did this?
