W said its over - Said I can't change her mind

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Came home today to find my W has removed all of her stuff an everything he brought into the M. Bedroom furniture, entertainment center, dishes and microwave and any other stuff that was hers. Also noticed she threw away some marriage stuff, the guestbooks and some pictures of us. It's obvious now she has moved all her stuff to one place, a place she will not tell me. I have no idea where she is living.

I was crushed when I got home. I had a "is this real life feeling." She seems to have completely moved on and checked out of R. Makes me unbelievably sad and frustrated. She never gave our M a chance to work or survive. She's making a life changing decision based on 2-3 months of ups and downs/good and bad.

Does she ever have to talk to me again? We currently have NC. How can I be the only one in this R that thinks about us all day?

Any vets out there?