Luke, sometimes I really don't know you. But you have to show your bravery a lot more.
I know it's there b/c you can't do the Essential Experience Workshop and get anything out of it, without great courage.
But when it comes to your wife and d, it's a strange thing to read here of your "lost comforts" and "suddenly being alone"...
you ARE alone a LOT NOW and only your d's dwindling r with you, remains...and is not improving. Time living where you are now and AS you are now, will Not help.
You need to face this NOW....and read the past few posts (gabby's mom and Ken's again) b/c you are NOT helping your d.
You aren't! You are hiding. Stop hiding or your d will never bother looking for you. She'll be so used to you not "really" being around (b/c you are hiding emotionally) that there won't be much to miss, will there?
YOU CAN DO THIS LUKE!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016