3. I am at work and tearing up gron your post. That is a very hard memory. You are right we need to give ourselves time to grieve- current sitch, past sadness and loss of dreams.

Then you can ho home to your cl3an and organized house and relax!!! Hope you don't go toi crazy at work.

Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15