Alright, what i'm struggling with now is should I ask W in a friendly way, how far she is in accomplishing her goal?

She has had the paperwork for almost 2 yrs and has not even filled them out.

Does this actually show hesitancy on her part? Has she passed the pre-contemplation phase and moving on to contemplating whether she wants to do this or not? OR is she just plain lazy and loves eating that cake?

I would love to know.

Had more back problems this morning from the couch! Man! I miss my bed!


Me 43 W 43
S 10 (Special Needs)
M: 14 yrs
T: 18 yrs
Bomb: 09/16/12
Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???