She goes on to say that 'the crazy guy got mad that i dont want to have in depth discussions with him, i don't even want to have clipped conversations with him'. I wasn't mad, more sad, I didn't say anything when she told me she didn't have anything to talk about....I just walked away.
I get the same thing. I told W how proud I was that she landed the job that she wanted last week. Later I hear her on the phone with a friend saying "He's mad because I got a job." I've concluded that the space you need to give them at this time is good for you too.