Azagtoth, Im not trying to portray my WAW as a horrible person and I hope its not coming across that way in my threads. She is not a horrible monster who is out to take me for everything Im worth. She is however, very adamant about custody of the children. She feels that she is the better/fit parent as Im not as strict and like to have some FUN.
In our state the courts do not care if your spouse is having an affair, but the do care about the well being of the children.
My WAW use to be a stay at home mom. Well ever since BD She has been going out Drinking every weekend till all hours of the night and some weekday till very late. She's even pulled a few all nighters. This will not look good for her and is why my attorney wants the PI.
All I want is whats fair. 50/50 everything. I love my boys and love spending time with them, always have. My WAW is fit and good mother, however she has made some poor choices post BD she has become a completely different person, but I still feel she is a great mother.
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14