melissa - standing up for me

[melissag]

Ha. I told him we should discuss whatever it is first and then with the kids with both of us present. He said, "I very much agree."

Then he said (referring to the basketball game this weekend which I planned to take the kids to myself), "I very much agree. I also think that we should both go to the nuggets game on Sunday night. I know that you don't like me much right now, but I think it's important for the kids' sake that we get along in front of them. So I would like to go to the game if you are OK with it."

Hell no I am not OK with it!!

I really want to day, "I would like to show the kids that I go to games with people who treat me with respect. So I will be inviting someone who does that."

Is my H bipolar?

I can fake getting along just fine at TKD thank you. I don't need to add additional activities to show them anything.

I wonder if he is afraid that whatever he tells them, they are going to be mad, and he thinks it will help if it looks like I am OK with it.