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Originally Posted By: OneDay
I feel no matter the outcome I need to say something. I would try to speak softly, from the heart in a Loving, yet firmly tell her, that I know what she is doing and about the OM your seeing To let her know I dont agree with what she is doing and all the sneaking around. Tell her This is obviously your choice, but you have a decision to make especially while we are still married and living together

Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
S7 S10
BD 10/19/13
W Filed 11/25/13
EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA)
WAW moved out 3/15/14