I love her... but she doesn't - Desperate

[Bunches]

Hey Blinded, sorry to hear about your sitch. I can relate, being 4 months in. I'm curious if you ever found out how long this has been on her mind. When I talked to my W she had said nearly 2 years off and on. That was a terrible realization.

I'm glad to hear you are managing to stay in the same house while working on your R. I don't know what that is like, my W having taken off the night of BD, it feels like there is little chance to expose changes. I think its important while the sitch is dire, to see how much worse it can get. I've read a lot of others posts where they have a truly uncomprimising, almost hateful R at this point and I think that helps. So keep reading and keep posting. Good luck!