BTW, I mentioned the financial stuff because this is causing her stress (she does the bills). I suggested to help her and all she said "we just need more money" -- so, since we had some family events, I drew a little more to cover as a bonus but you get my reluctancy.
Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8 Separated: 10/24/13 DB since: 12/14/13 Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet) Still living together/Separate rooms