Thanks guys! What about the financial situation? I know I can bring more in to the household but I am afraid to get an increase at this stage of the game (remember that I own my own business). I rather have just enough to cover expenses instead of thinking about increasing my income now. We are basically paycheck to paycheck now since she took on a lower paid job right at the time of the Bomb. Since we didn't event talk around that time, her pay cut was surely going to get us pay to to paycheck. We are now seeing it on our accounts. We have enough to survive but not extra to save or pay off cards faster (which is what she wants to do asap).
Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8 Separated: 10/24/13 DB since: 12/14/13 Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet) Still living together/Separate rooms
