own buz 22:mediation to reconcilliation, hopefully

[makingmagic]

Bond? Job? KenF? Advina? Sandi? GM23? Portia? LoisB? 2ndTime?... and anyone I may have forgotten (sorry)... a little communication?

From Bond (prev. thread): I'm glad your interactions were positive, however I don't see that anything has changed. To be honest, since we weren't there, we don't know how much of the conversation you tried to control.

as per Bond, in previous thread: "I know you say he mentioned things like C, etc. But what did he say he would DO from here on out?

I have a feeling that you're repeating the same pattern as before where you THINK he's going to make all these changes but will be disappointed and say you were "tricked" if he doesn't.

Just a little cautious because this seems to have been a pattern in the past."

.... Yes, it has been a pattern of the past, however NOW it seems completely different. I listen to what he is saying and how HE WANTS to seek for help. I heard HE will DO, something (seek friend help and/or IC) I HEAR this! I also HEARD that his coffee/costco attempts with me is his way to start something. He said this again last night. He says things like he wants to review what his motivation is for reconcilliation.

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I really would like to have some communication, either advice, suggestions, ideas, thoughts on any part of my sitch. As each poster has their opinion, I would really like to "hear" what you all have to say (knowing that I may ask questions back or answer back, feeling that my answer may change your opinion/advice).

Thank you, Magic