I still love you (and always will in some little place), I appreciate our times together, and I wish you the best on your next adventures. I am not going to let our past control my present or future....However those times unfold for me.
Really "letting go" is done with acceptance of the present....not filled with anger, hate, etc....But more a loving good bye.
Does that makes sense? LOL
This is one of the best explanations of DTR I've heard. Thanks, LFW.
And that;s just the way it feels, too.
But it's a process more than a destination and every step you take toward you, get's you closer.
I know it's a bit scary cause we get stuck in thinking "but that's not what I want! I want what I had!" That's where acceptance comes in, what you had is no longer available to you.
Be grateful for what you have today.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
