OK, so in my proposed response, I am trying to explain and defend myself?
It's funny, though, bc I viewed it more as ripping on my H, though perhaps in a P/A fashion.
Here's what I am uncomfortable with with your text: I feel like the "handle this like adults" is just taking a shot at him. A well deserved shot, but a shot nonetheless. Is that not poking the bear? When he said the same to me (in response to my filing), I thought "what an ass."
Why can't I just tell him to F right off and go wallow in his a$$holeness all by his pathetic self and leave me and our kids out of it?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
