Part 2-H moving out

[Georgiabelle]

Another question. H comes over in the am to take kids to school. He is not particularly in the moment (on phone, tweeting and snapchatting entire time-but I of course say nothing. Just find it odd since he is with kids an hour a day only) but has best relationship with s4.

He did not speak to me this am and I not to him. However, I was singing in the kitchen and talking to my sons. I wasn't cold, but I am deferring to the him speaking first. H made a pot of coffee. Anyone have any thoughts on this? I mean I guess it was nice but I wasn't going to make a pot this am and would have just grabbed a cup at work.

Also, I no longer text h pics or funny things kids do. I make him initiate all contact. And trust me, he doesn't want to talk. Only text. He asks me how kids are but won't call them. I just wait a while and respond that they are fine or are being very sweet.

This is what feels best for me as I am detaching and I swear I don't know this man. Periodically, he will make a comment about one of the kids and I will think "that's him." Only to have him say or do something that totally is out of (old) h character.

I think I am struggling with no seeming cold, but he knew when he left I loved him. So obviously, I just have to move on with my life. Thoughts?

Thanks everyone.