Whatever changes you are making are to be for you. You don't do them to get a reaction out of your spouse. Many people rearrange furniture, paint and put up new drapes. Some have even gone further and sold their homes and moved into new places. The world is your oyster...make your home yours and don't worry about what he thinks.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
