I need all the help i can get

[Barrybran]

G'day Recruit. Lostforwords sent me here and I can see why. Your situation is similar to mine in a lot of ways. My situation is still in the early stages and I'm currently in a rough spot with my wife but I'm in a better position than I was three months ago because of what I've read and followed here. I could write an essay on things I've experienced that I feel could help you, especially from a codependency standpoint, but if you read, follow and commit to Sandi's 37 rules you'll start to see some progress soon.