I don't think the kids need to b told. He moved out in November. Do they think he was abducted? Serving abroad? Is he a Navy Seal? The kids know.
Do you feel guilty about filing for S?
The kids know that we are separated. We told them that. There is no reason to tell them that I filed to make it legal, and my H must know that.
No, I don't feel guilty at all. I filed to protect my kids and myself, and I think that was 100% the correct decision, based on how pissed my H is about the injunction.
I did not file for D because I don't want to get D. I decided that could be H's decision.
While I think there were manipulations in his email (wanting You to feel guilty really is a tad hilarious. And I do know what that word means...) I think we're past using this for any value in forward movement.
Thing is, I do not believe he put a lot of thought into it. It's an emotional sideswipe he took at you, with a minute's thought, at most. Why not? HE felt upset...BUT
This is already taking too much of your time and energy. The five minutes this topic deserved, given how utterly goofy and silly a$$ed it is, was plenty...
let's move on...back to YOU, Mel!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
