Continue to show him he has no power over your behavior, stay calm in whatever you choose to say or do. And do not be like him and try to control in return. He sees that you're level headed and thinking smartly he wants to throw you off and get you thinking from a place of emotion to do what he wants....do not give him the satisfaction.
I want to do that, but I will admit that I am pretty concerned about this. I can't stop him from saying or doing whatever he wants, I know that. But I am really disturbed and worried that he would use our kids to get at me.
What if he does go that route, and tells them whatever he is going to tell them, and then blames it on me. Then what do I do? I can eat it, or I can tell them Daddy is lying? Uggghhhhhhhh.
He's a real a-hole.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
