I did not respond and got this text:

"I'll take that as a no. Just as a heads up, I'm planning on discussing with them this weekend. "

WTF? Um. No. That's a convo we all have together.

Any ideas of what to say without going into "don't F with my kids or I will kill you" mode?

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14