Lfw gave a nice summary of your question. I would prefer to drop the rope with confidence in myself and in a loving way.
Do you want to give up? What do you want 'dropping the rope' to mean for you?
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014