Won't stop affair. Wants divorce now.

[D2ndday]

I feel for you Lost! I am in a similar spot with W still having an affair, claiming she thinks she loves him. Don't think about what they are doing!!! I know that is easier said than done. But it does you no good. I struggle with this myself, and it makes me sick when I do think of it. But when you feel that thought coming on, do something else. Get up, go do something else. Come here and vent, post. Anything! Do something that you like. For me that has been big and small things. Sometimes as little as grabbing some food I love. Get a massage! Something to spoil yourself. You deserve it right now. I know it helps a little for me. I was nickel and diming everything I did for awhile in preparation for what I feared would come tomorrow. But, today has come, and nothing has changed. This is the hardest thing I have been through, so why shouldn't we treat ourselves. Cut ourselves some slack! Dot be reckless, but think of something that brings you happiness. You deserve it! Stay strong! You can make it through this! No matter what the outcome.