Won't stop affair. Wants divorce now.

[FloydMan]

I know pal. I have been there. It hurts like hell. To your W she wants divorce and does not see it as affair any longer...as misguided as that is. Get business going and it helps take focus off her and easier to detach. If you don't, it will cost more, time money and stress you you and your D. You are allowed to be free too, not just her. Don't let her selfishness hold you hostage. You need to protect yourself financially, as I have learned now that selfishness has no boundaries for the WAS and will will spread out beyond the A and she will want more. Cake eaters are sick.