No. We went while H was having the A. Afterward, H said he wanted to go alone to deal with his internal issues and find out why he was acting the way he was. I did not pressure the issue. He says our was telling him things he already knew and it was a waste of time. He both agree that we are not happy with the current relationship. H wants me to be the same person I was before but I've changed. I'm wiser and stronger and I don't want to ever be the broken person I was.