Love ya man. You need rest. It will help thinking and decisions to deal with the business side of this and work with your lawyer efficiently. It sounds harsh, but it will help to detach. Your daughter needs you and you will always have her. Get the legalities tidied up neatly and peacefully. You will be able to afford the time and money for the trips the smoother this part goes, without compromising your rights of course.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.