I agree in not telling everybody, I confide in my sister and one good friend. I don't think I would make it thru some days without them. Wished they live closer.

Went to a counselor today, she was ok. Her hours are not conducive for me and it is too long of a drive.

She did say I should tell the kids. Said H left me holding the bag and they may resent me if I don't. Not quite ready for that yet.

He is doing a good job avoiding everybody, not just me. Of course it's easy from the other side of the world.

J


Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since