I don't think the kids need to b told. He moved out in November. Do they think he was abducted? Serving abroad? Is he a Navy Seal? The kids know.
Do you feel guilty about filing for S?
The kids know that we are separated. We told them that. There is no reason to tell them that I filed to make it legal, and my H must know that.
No, I don't feel guilty at all. I filed to protect my kids and myself, and I think that was 100% the correct decision, based on how pissed my H is about the injunction.
I did not file for D because I don't want to get D. I decided that could be H's decision.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14