He does not see his own hipocracy. He is not looking ahead or backwards. Not sure why you care if he thinks its your fault if you file. Your jaw will drop many times through this. When someone is in crisis they are more likely to cooperate. The way . I see it is that he is creating a crisis for u so u fog up and can't think clearly. Step back and breath. Have no contact for a bit and think things through with a clear and rested mind. Aren't lawyers (our system ) adversarial by nature? Sadly both sides lose in this instance. Trying to find normalcy in any of this will consume you.
Hi Rick, thanks for stopping by my thread.
I find it mind boggling that someone could be so blatantly hypocritical and not see it at all. It makes me shake my head in disbelief.
I don't care if he thinks it's my fault, I'm just astonished at the way he is acting. (Or how he could possibly convince himself of such a ridiculous untruth.) I do, however, care if he decides to go so low as to try to convince the kids that this was my idea. That I do care about.
I don't think that lawyers are adversarial by nature. I practiced commercial real estate law and it was all very cooperative most of the time. I think that even D can be very cooperative, with the right lawyers. I think that with our lawyers, things could go very smoothly - the problem seems to be that H doesn't like the reality of what he is going to have to give up in order to D me. Thankfully, I think his lawyer will set him straight. So maybe it will go smoothly and he will just be pissed off at me. Who knows.
Sigh.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
