melissa - standing up for me

[melissag]

Well, I tried to give my H the benefit of the doubt. Maybe I am just not being objective, but I can't really imagine that my H truly just wants to know whether I have told the kids that I filed for S. It doesn't make any sense. First off, do they need to know the legal process involved in this? Second, it won't make any difference for them for the time being - I didn't change anything, I am just legalizing what is already happening. And third, does he really think I would tell them anything like that without him present?

I think he knows damn well I haven't told them - I don't know whether he is insinuating that I should tell them because I am the one who filed?

Whatever it is, I think I will just ignore it because it was such a stupid question.

And yes, it is a 180 for me to ignore him when he tries to instigate an argument.