My therapist also asked what my positives were..

1. Meditated every other day and got a at home yoga session in a few times

2. Have been on an AD for a few weeks and having a much easier time dealing with s tantrums

3. Much less stressed about other things in my life out of my control. My boss showed up for a surprise audit on my day off and I didn't stress at all.

4. Took off my wedding rings which was a crucial step in letting go.

I had a really good therapy session. As we were talking I realized that one of the things making this even harder was not having a local support system down here. We talked about how I might start to build a sense of community here. I never did before because h never liked to go out and we always had each other. Now he is out all rhe time with his new friends I am feeling the result of not putting myself out there all those years.


Me 44 H 42
M 10 T 12 (at time of BD)
Ss 20 16
S11 (special needs)

BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom
10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied
S and I move out 3/15