He does not see his own hipocracy. He is not looking ahead or backwards. Not sure why you care if he thinks its your fault if you file. Your jaw will drop many times through this. When someone is in crisis they are more likely to cooperate. The way . I see it is that he is creating a crisis for u so u fog up and can't think clearly. Step back and breath. Have no contact for a bit and think things through with a clear and rested mind. Aren't lawyers (our system ) adversarial by nature? Sadly both sides lose in this instance. Trying to find normalcy in any of this will consume you.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”